Originally Posted By Mistress UV
I think half the time the chemistry is off is because they're not actually submissive, and when you write to set a boundary or tell them what they don't want to hear --- that you won't continue to fulfill their 'need'---they will show their true colors. I'm seeing more and more that throw absolute tantrums when I tell them I'm not interested in seeing them. I don't think it's my job to teach grown men how to deal with the word 'NO' but I do think they need to hear it more often.


Mistress, this sounds like a generational reaction which is outside of my experience. The word "entitlement" comes to mind, i.e. "I want to session with you and have the disposable income to do it," etc. And you are absolutely correct about "they're not actually submissive."

Years ago, during a period I sessioned with a variety of Mistresses, a couple said that the emotional weight some subs dumped onto them was highly stressful. But I never heard of not being able to take "NO" for an answer.