From a subs perspective, I like your approach of "I don't think we are a good fit, but best of luck." If they persist or request future sessions, just deny the proposal.

To me, its obvious when the chemistry is not there. So, its a mutual thing. You just know it when it happens. The energy, fun, and spark just isn't there. Everything seems awkward, no flow, no fun / laughing, and energy exchange is flat.

I guess sometimes the sub doesn't see that - probably so caught up in themselves or the moment to realize it.

I've been fortunate. When I session, the chemistry and energy and fire has always been there. I don't float around alot, tend to see the same domme over long periods of time. With current domme for 10 years. I have played with 7 dommes over 22 years (well 9, if you include doubles in a select sessions). Of those 7, 5 were repeats with 2 one and done. But the 2 one and done were houses - with one being on the west coast and not easily accessible.

From my perspective, all dommes have been very good, with a few being great. From their perspective - well, only they truly know that. Chemistry has always been good, never an issue. I can honestly say the dommes have been very cool, fun, smart, creative, sexy. I wish that was true for all women on earth (gonna get in trouble saying that!, but oh well - its true!). My point - pro dommes are different and unique, and I love it!!!

Celeste