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#21561 - 08/24/24 07:39 PM
Letting subs down easy...
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Registered: 10/18/15
Posts: 293
Loc: Atlanta
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Ever have a session that you just didn't have the correct dynamic or chemistry with your sub? Does the thought of having to put up with that sub again for any amount of money turn your stomach? Was the sub pushy, top from the bottom, cross personal boundaries?
This is bound to happen every once in a while unfortunately, and most of the time they try to book another session, being blindly delusional to the fact I was not really enjoying My time. It's not to say they wouldn't be enjoyed by someone else with different expectations for their submissives, but it won't be Me!
My question is for both Dommes and subs; what is the best way to let a sub down easy?
I dislike the 'ghost and block' method because emails get lost, and I want there to be a clear understanding. I'm usually honest and say 'I don't think we're a good fit, but best of luck'. However, sometimes rejection is hard, and it actually can lead to a worse situation, including stalking, angry emails, and other issues.
How do you usually handle this situation as a Domme? What would you prefer to happen in this scenario as a sub?
Edited by Mistress UV (08/24/24 07:40 PM)
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