The simplest way to put this is that each city has a particular cliché about it for a reason. I feel like seeing multiple subs in a city was like tapping into the "psycho-emotional" vascular system of that place.

These are GENRALIZATIONS. Do not apply these concepts to individuals.

LA subs need emotional connection. This can be nice, but not something that you can force. If it doesn't happen, subs can come across as needy. Tops who are extroverted and controlling do well here. Some love to micromanage, and some love to be micromanaged.

SF subs are the most overtly sexual and perverse. SF owns kink as a part of its sexuality. Not that they push it into being vanilla, but they are absolutely comfortable with wearing their kinks on their sleeves.

NYC subs are super pragmatic and quite f-ing busy already! NYC loves to try to push boundaries but can graciously accept no. While NYC subs have a rep for being the most extreme, I feel these are outliers. Most clients wanted a safe mental vacation for 1-3 hours without having to leave Manhattan.

How can I say this about DC subs? They are tired and sad—not really in a bad way, but just over it. It is probably the most stressed-out city I know. They need discretion but aren't as obsessed with it as other people. Perhaps since they tend to have a lot of power (responsibility), they already assume every move is being watched.

This sounds mean, but I honestly enjoy my slice of kink providing relief to the mundanity of the day-to-day.