I also posted to X/TW but I thought this would be an interesting topic to discuss here.

After speaking with a right of the slash identifying during the Power and Protocol Exchange intensive this weekend, I have to know am I the only Preaux Domme who didn't consider themselves "lifestyle?" He mentioned typically seeing "it" the other way around--- lifestylers deciding to go preaux... Needless to say, it was an eyeopening convo.

Although I have a sex coach business where I specialize in kink education and do an extensive amount of SWer advocacy work for another org, up to about a 6-9 months ago, I felt it was necessary to "try" to keep the SWer profession life separate from My personal life and never really considered Myself a "lifestyle kinkster."

I've since decided to reconsider the lifestyle for My personal life (dating/communities/etc.) but I'm curious to know did anyone else "preaux" take this approach?