I'm curious as to how often your mind turns to kink in everyday life? What everyday items or situations makes your mind go there?

It happens to me all the time. There is the classic Home Depot stuff (rope, chains, padlocks) but lots of other things too. I saw a locking steel garage storage unit that measured about 2 feet deep by 4 feet wide by 5 high. My first thought was about leaving out the shelves being locked in that unable to stand erect or lay down. Then I thought about how easy it would be to install some eyebolts on the inside for restraint attachment points. A posture collar padlocked to one high up would leave you awkwardly crouching unable to sit down either.

Walking though a auto parts store and seeing a selection of antennas my first thought is always "Wow, I bet they would hurt!"

Browsing the arthritis cream aisle at a drugstore and checking out the capsaicin extra strength rub.


Obviously shoe stores with stiletto pumps or boots in the window do it for me....and for me, with my kink for suffering heat play, any time seeing heavy Arctic parkas, Northface down suits or winterweight down sleeping bags etc. Obviously, given my name, the fur department at an upscale department store or a furrier display window also used to do it for me but sadly that is becoming less and less common even in Canada.

The recent thread on outdoor play got me thinking about cutting the lawn on a really hot day. Now I'll daydream about being dressed in multiple layers of wool, fleece and down from head to toe as if it was --40, my hands cuffed to the lawn mower's push bar and wearing a remote electroshock device on my balls. Mistress lounging in the shade with the remote and a cool drink, encouraging me to pick up the pace......

I’ve been thinking about b this very thing lately. When I am alone and idle kink is on my mind quite a bit. My masochistic and submissive desires are as strong as ever. I haven’t had a session in probably 16 months which is partly the reason why I’m sure and it’s frustrating but I remember when I sessioned more frequently the itch or desires would go away for a few days but come right back. I’m just hardwired into it.

The items that makes me instantly think of kink are alligator clips , twine and probably a few more im forgetting right now.