The Thomas has offered up some great suggestions. He is a maso so he is the perfect one to respond to your post.

Originally Posted By claudifam
No orgasm within 72 hours? That's really interesting. How does that play into building that pain tolerance?


I require at least a 3 day abstinence policy augmented by some edging prior to most every session. That build up of sexual tension facilitates pushing limits of all kinds.
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