Hi Doms and subs, setting up my next session and need some tips/advice from you.

I always wanted to try T&D in a femdom session but from the information available online, it is not clear what happens during this session.

Any tips for someone trying this out for the first time? Also if climaxing happens in the middle of the session will the Dom be disappointed or end the session?

It completely depends on the individual Domme, her style, and how she likes to do this.

I doubt a Domme would be disappointed or end the session, but I can't speak for other Dommes. Just pick someone who you'll think is a good fit for you.

The usual "punishment" for climaxing is being made to eat your cum. Never had a session terminated because of it. There was one session where the Domme was disappointed. In prior sessions I had maintained control and she had praised me for it. When I failed she felt it necessary to punish me rather severely.

I completely agree with Domme Lynx on this. As someone who has experienced this, especially in role play, just do your research and see who’s a good fit. And ask questions. Communication is always the key.

All the counsel here has been spot on. Only thing I would add is just in the pre-session discussion raise the concern over an “accident” happening and the consequences for it.

Thanks everyone, for your tips!

A couple of thoughts....

In a pro session I've always depended on the skill of the Domme to prevent an "accident" during tease and denial. I've never had it happen but if one was to occur it would depend on when in the session it happened. At the 30 minute mark of a two hour session I would want to continue even if that required a break or a period of CNC play ( I would have discussed this before the session). If it was near the end of our time I would consider the session done but be a little annoyed at the Domme over the situation.

Playing privately I've always negotiated that the Domee is in charge (subject to agreed parameters and limits). In that case I would be surprised if a fairly severe punishment didn't happen followed by being left in bondage until recovered and then having play resume.

I've been in private, non pro sessions where the Domme has purposely pushed me over the edge after giving me strict orders not to lose control as an "excuse" to inflict penalties. Not at all enjoyable at the time but a very hot memory to look back on.