Accidental bleeding, or light bleeding like you say, is more what I'm after. Usually takes a bit to get me to bleed anywhere. At least with impact play that is.

No orgasm within 72 hours? That's really interesting. How does that play into building that pain tolerance?

Warm ups are definitely essential to severe impact play. You're absolutely right on that for most play.

The pace definitely needs to be varied.

Paddles are neglected in the post because I honestly forgot paddles were a thing when I typed that out.