I think Bluesky is dead to most people. I have a vanilla account there and never check it. There was a burst of energy to get off of Twitter/X a while back, but most people I know are still on it and their Bluesky, Mastodon and Threads accounts are more dormant. For me, it's just one too many platforms to keep up with, and everyone I follow -- kink and otherwise -- is still on X.