I've played with Dommes who were in graduate school pursuing a masters and in one case a Phd. Mostly 20-somethings but very bright people who definitely had it together.

it seems like she may have been gaslighting you to make you feel shame and guilt. it seems really odd to be participating in kink activities and then accuse someone of immorality. a vast majority of the populace would considers most kink immoral.

No, it is not immoral.

It is a business. She is legal age. Its consensual. Its what you desired. A connection was made. Enjoy it.

Discussing other professionals is risky - for this reason. Feelings can surface of jealously and greed. If you (or the person you are talking to) can not handle the content of the discussion, it is better left unsaid. It is immature behavior to say this.

Celeste

Thank you. I think it’s the future it’s best if the question of other providers come up to not say anything or go into detail unless it’s about a reference.

I am 72, and session with a 20 year old college student I met on the sugar daddy site seeking arrangements. She is a findomme and wanted to get some hands on experience.

Celeste, I tend to agree with you. It is a business.

I'm not part of the morality police and I'm not really that active in the scene anymore, just serving one mature Mistress now. But when I was active, a decade or so ago, seeing a variety of Mistresses, my personal preference in a dominatrix when it came to age was at least 35 or so. I'm more comfortable with women who have several years experience, and even when I started out in my early 20s my preference was "older" women - 40 or more.