A few years ago, when I was actively seeking out new Mistresses to experience, I drew the line at sessioning with anyone who seemed under their late 30s. My feeling is at my age, then and now, the early 20s was an age gap that didn't feel right to me.

However, I was on the other side of the fence years ago, when I got into this scene. I was 20, a commuter college kid. I saw the Mistress' BDSM ad, and she was mature, gorgeous and I called. In the in-person interview she asked me what kind of session I wanted (How the hell did I know? I was just hot for her.). She found out I was in college, working part time and living at home. Years later I found out she had to be late 40s, maybe 50 when I met her, my Mom's age at the time. After our second session she said, "Don't tell your Mom about this." After reading this thread I now wonder if maybe she had second thoughts about seeing me at that age. All I know was an education... in a good way.