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#21089 - 06/23/24 07:08 AM Caning
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In my experience control and precision with a cane is quite an art. The ability to target strikes and control force, to raise welts and weals and leave marks for a week or more without seriously broken skin or scarring is far from universal.

I wonder what percentage of US Dommes have this skill set? For those that don't is it because it is more of an English thing and not in as wide demand in the US?

Many Dommes include "canes" under Impact Play or CP in a laundry list of services offered but what are the signs one should look for that might indicant a highly skilled practitioner?

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#21092 - 06/23/24 12:25 PM Re: Caning [Re: furfan]
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Recent clips are the first place to look for skill sets like that -- when the lines are nice and straight across an ass and not wrapped around hips or all over the place I always cringe when I see someone with caning videos and they've just whacking away at someone like they're a piñata
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#21095 - 06/23/24 05:00 PM Re: Caning [Re: Mistress UV]
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Not to hijack this thread, but I’ve been obsessed with some of the ball caning videos I’ve seen. Obviously these are much smaller canes than what you are talking about. I’m assuming there’s not as much skill required? I’ve always wanted to try it, but have been a bit terrified for obvious reasons, lol.

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#21096 - 06/23/24 07:33 PM Re: Caning [Re: furfan]
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Originally Posted By furfan


Many Dommes include "canes" under Impact Play or CP in a laundry list of services offered but what are the signs one should look for that might indicant a highly skilled practitioner?


Check their social media. Not just for impact play photos, but overall. The more professional they are overall, the more likely they take their craft seriously. The more likely they take their craft seriously, the more likely they took the time to master multiple aspects of the craft (including proper caning).

I would also look out for the word "disciplinarian." If they mention or highlight that, I'd assume canning is in their specialties.

I'll be honest, I'd guess only ~30% of US Dommes have this in their refined skill set. This is just from my experiences, though. I've had to stop someone in a double once because they were hitting the spine. Yikes.
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#21098 - 06/23/24 07:43 PM Re: Caning [Re: DommeLynx]
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Originally Posted By DommeLynx
Originally Posted By furfan


Many Dommes include "canes" under Impact Play or CP in a laundry list of services offered but what are the signs one should look for that might indicant a highly skilled practitioner?


I would also look out for the word "disciplinarian." If they mention or highlight that, I'd assume canning is in their specialties.


Based on my experience that is a very good point. The problem though for someone like Furfan is that disciplinarians mostly do one hour sessions and their bondage skillset ls often limited to basic restraint.

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#21129 - 06/26/24 10:08 AM Re: Caning [Re: The Thomas]
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Yes caning is a difficult art to master.
And is a quite serious level of infliction.
I'm extremely cautious in between strokes.
I always stop, examine and wait.


I got a big chuckle out of the comment about whacking away like a pinata. It's true.
That's about spot on for most of the video content on the net.

I did find a good video link for the actual punishment process in Singapore.
It's an older video, but informational.

https://youtu.be/q-eQm16LtzQ?si=705Ncdejtplcw0gQ[u][u][/u]

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#21130 - 06/26/24 11:19 AM Re: Caning [Re: Stern Miss Lea]
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Why is Singapore so rule bound and strict? The culture, the government, or both?

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#21131 - 06/26/24 12:34 PM Re: Caning [Re: Soapy]
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I had my asshole caned once. She had me on my knees, arched my back and ass, spread it wide open for access. She straddled my back facing my ass, and took aim - slower multiple strikes, followed by drawing back further and delivering a harder single strike. It was hot - so, she cooled it down with readily available liquids.

Celeste

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#21132 - 06/26/24 02:55 PM Re: Caning [Re: Soapy]
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It is cultural and governmental.
Not somewhere to fuck around and find out.

North Korea is the worst for the 3 Generation policy and prisons.
The majority don't survive and the ones born there never leave.

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#21133 - 06/26/24 03:38 PM Re: Caning [Re: Stern Miss Lea]
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No surprise about North Korea.

A former coworker was stationed in South Korea during her time in the Air Force. She told me in South Korea the family had to pay for the prisoner's food. If they had no family the prisoner might get a scoop of rice from the government.

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