It was exactly this logic that caused me to take my first raceplay session roughly 13 years ago. Like Madame Jess, being in Atlanta, it can feel like a particularly prickly situation. It was almost like overcoming my own fears, with the sub helping me through it. I continued to see him (and others) over the years and he and I still talk on the phone - but in reality I don't think I am very good at it. And I have wondered, to be "good at it", does it have to come from a real place of hate or are some people just that good at acting?

I would like to clarify that I always refused Muslim/religious humiliation raceplay. No sure what that says about me, but it terrified me.