Has anybody else noticed the emphasize several Mistress's are placing on forcing male subs to suck cock, and participate in gay sex?

It seems to be all the rage on social media and clips. From a strictly professional perspective I would advise caution. A Domme I know casually, lost her slave-boyfriend to a gay master. After she turned him out.

I love this fetish so My SM algorithms and forum searches might be too skewed to notice any specific additional emphasize.


This is interesting. Not gonna lie... The possibility of this outcome excites Me, so I could lean into it, encourage it even. However, this doesn't sound like it was the expectation of the Domme you mentioned, so that is unfortunate.

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That would be a hard limit for me!

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Hard limit for me, too.

I actually have a long time client who loves talking about doing exactly that--- we discuss how his gay Master would train and enslave him. In sessions I train him to be a better slave for his dream man he eventually meets and becomes property of. He also sees male escorts (on his own accord) and films it so I can give him a review of how well he sucks cock. More than a little bi curious I'd say! I do hope one day he moves on to find his dream man... Not sure you can make someone gay through Domination, I think you have to start out that way, we can just make it ok to come out of the closet.

On the otherside of the spectrum, I think straight guys fantasize about doing whats most taboo to them, it's the shock and thrill of doing something they wouldn't do themselves, never tried, or had secret thoughts about. And the thrill only increases with a Domme telling them they have to! Most never cross the line into the actual act but it's fun to prepare them with making them suck a strap on, etc

I agree completely with you on your second point. I have a huge interest in degradation play. Licking the soles of a Domme’s boots , eating off the floor or forced golden consumption are all things I’ve experienced in session. However, the turn on wasn’t those activities themselves but rather the idea of being “forced” under threat of severe punishment. I guess I see this type of thing as an expression of the Domme’s power and a demonstration of the sub’s complete helplessness. Being in strict bondage helps with getting into the right headspace too.

I was going to add my voice to those saying “hard limit” but upon reflection, with the right Domme and the right level of coercion, it’s not without at least some attraction as a fantasy.