I can't provide anything from a BIPOC perspective, being a hetero white guy.

But reading your comments fueled powerful thoughts in my mind, where I might go to someone like You expecting the commonly requested Race Play and then be told that no, I must instead be educated about the true dynamics or power, privilege and words.

Then, if I listen intently, I am allowed to gently kiss your feet and the education that I just absorbed makes the experience better than anything I had expected at the start of the session.

Thank you for adding your perspective.