Anytime I've had a session that involved sexy bits (and nearly all have) it was always separate and before any aftercare. For me aftercare comes after the session ends and involves transitioning out of the DS headspace.

In my experience it's more about a bit of time to clean up, relax, process, perhaps chat a bit about vanilla subjects and gradually return to reality.


Edited by furfan (06/15/24 05:51 AM)