The client who was black and seeking race play wanted a light of heart, fun role play. He was one of the few men who was welcome to hang out at my studio on evenings we weren't busy. So, I got to know him fairly well. He as an easy going, fun loving man.

My late husband was a session tramp before we started dating. He loved to play. He was into variety of themes and absolutely adored women. He served a black dom for a while. She brought race into but in a soft way. It was a great experience for him, light of heart and mainly about ass and muscle worship.

"On the one hand, I'm all for sexual liberation and heavy degradation is how some people are ultimately liberated sexually."


This is an interesting line of thought. I'm trying to get my head around. Can you tell me more about this process or why people find degradation liberating?