Last month I was contacted by a reasonably well known Domme. I met her briefly at a party over the Holidays. She shocked me by saying, she had been having naughty thoughts about me. She then elaborated, explaining that she wanted to be my lesbian slave.

At first I thought she was joking. She quickly assured me that she wasn't. She told me that she had plans to be in Connecticut over the weekend...could we meet for coffee? We met at the local Yuckbucks. She described her lengthy relationship with a professional Mistress. She was referred to by a psychologist, while she attended Brown.

She confided that it was difficult to find a serious Mistress. Someone she could trust not to reveal her secret to everyone in the NYC scene. She feared if her clients were told about her kink, they would desert her.

Thoughts anyone? Would it bother you to find out your Mistress is a slave?

I would have zero problems with it. To me, in a pro setting, it's about skill in providing the session experience I am looking for. Whether the Top is Domme, Sub or Switch in their private life is irrelevant.

In fairness though, I am more of a bondage bottom/fetishist/sensation seeker than a true submissive.

Sounds like an erotic fiction novel! Although I have seen female clients referred by psychologist before

Great post and interesting topic.

From my perspective, this is VERY normal. I believe everybody has a bit of submissiveness in them. Given the situation, person, trigger, etc - everybody wants that - even if it is a brief moment in time for a very short duration. Just to scratch that itch, so to speak.

So, not an issue for me - I totally get it.

Celeste

I am a switch so this wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

This doesn't sound out of the ordinary at all. Who knows more about why to go to a pro mistress than another pro mistress? My experience is mistresses, and queer women in general, make the BEST subs. They communicate well and have a trust in themselves to go really deep.

Anyone who thinks a Domina needs to be 100% dominant 100% of the time should be quiet while the adults are talking.

To quote Oscar Wilde; “Life imitates art far more than art imitates life”

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I couldn't agree more! So far she is showing more devotion than any male I've ever trained.

This sounds like a fun situation. Female slaves can be an absolute blast. My experience is their energy is boundless. The more the peak in a session, the more they want to play. As for this being a turn off to male clients, the lesbian aspect would probably turn more on than off. If it were a male a Domme was subbing to, that could be different, rightly or wrongly.

I've witnessed this happen within the last year with Ezada Sinn and Giada Da Vinci. I was actually present when they met. Giada was even brave enough to film the relationship and really put herself out there. She was and is a formidable Mistress. Her submission to Ezada takes nothing away from her power as a dominant female. That's my first hand observation/opinion - but then I am not a male client . . .

At any rate, enjoy the situation if you are so inclined. Please do kiss and tell. ;-)