I’ve built a few good ongoing relationships on OF though mostly with “vanilla” types and not Dommes. My main issues with OF are 1) you can’t use many kink/femdom words eg ballbusting is banned 2) providers turn over a lot as soon as you’ve built up rapport they are gone! 3) managing/finding content is a pain and if they drop off you can lose content you paid for. I like LF better as it is WAY more kink/femdom friendly and the store feature is better for buying and accessing content.

My favorite platform though is SextPanther while a different focus than OF/LF it is great for chatting and you can share some content there although admittedly that’s not really its focus. It’s basically just a pay to text platform. But I find it a better place to build an online relationship with a Domme personally

My last comment on OF is I think it’s left a lot of us jaded as many of the bigger models are run via agencies so you’re not even talking with the person. This seems to be less of an issue on other platforms. I also personally find more of a send me more mindset on OF compared to the other platforms.