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#20941 - 05/24/24 01:16 AM Re: Just who do you think you are? [Re: The Thomas]
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To be fair, I only had four cardinal categories, which are all very general. Perhaps I will do something more complex and nuanced, but I think it's pretty good for something I put together in 3 days.

"Slave" is super nebulous, but definitely different than a Brat mentality.
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#20942 - 05/24/24 03:49 AM Re: Just who do you think you are? [Re: Domina M]
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The quiz was fun but got me wrong. Way wrong I would say. I found that I wanted more choices than the 4 choices given a number of times. It’s complicated for me. I’m complicated ha ha. I’ve definitely got a strong masochist desire inside of me although it’s similar to the gym. I don’t enjoy the pain or thoughts of the pain but I need it. I think I’m submissive but maybe I am just super polite as you say. I am obedient in session and want to please.
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#20943 - 05/24/24 04:59 AM Re: Just who do you think you are? [Re: buffalo]
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I am glad you enjoyed it, and you are right. There needed to be so many more answers than four and more questions than twenty, to be more precise. I am, in fact, surprised with how many agree.

Consider the ROI for my time with the goal of starting a conversation. I feel great about that goal.

What choices would you have added?
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#20944 - 05/24/24 05:09 AM Well Aren't I just Pleased as Punch [Re: Domina M]
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I am pretty happy with my little Buzzfeed type quiz. I've been wracking my brain on how to engage with the fetish community authentically. It seems like the only way to get anyone's attention is Rage Bait or extreme porn.

Okay my post title was a little click bait-y, but eh.

Now I have to think of another quiz.
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#20945 - 05/24/24 05:54 AM Re: Just who do you think you are? [Re: Domina M]
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Some of the questions were tough as more than one answer could apply to me. Did the best I could to answer truthfully and got Fetishist.

The description seems pretty accurate. I'd say I'm definitely a bondage bottom with a dash of masochism and several very strong fetishes


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#20946 - 05/24/24 06:10 AM Re: Just who do you think you are? [Re: furfan]
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There are no wrong answers, just the one that is best for you. I suppose 100 questions would be more accurate. I am but one domina, though.
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#20947 - 05/24/24 06:14 AM Re: Just who do you think you are? [Re: Domina M]
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Well, I was still surprised at how accurate a diagnosis those 20 questions came up with. Pretty well nailed the main items on my interests list. They were all on your list under "Fetishist"

Love the quiz idea BTW.


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#20959 - 05/25/24 04:33 AM Re: Just who do you think you are? [Re: Domina M]
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I’m not sure what choices I would have added. I think the option none of the above or the ability to check more than one box for each question would have been good for me. But I don’t want to seem critical. It was fun and a light hearted way to get a xc little insight into oneself.
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#20960 - 05/25/24 05:08 AM Re: Just who do you think you are? [Re: buffalo]
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I'm always looking for input for improvement. I appreciate your advice and mostly agree with you. However, I can't really incorporate your ideas because of the limitations of the quiz software and my time spent crouched over my computer like a little hobit thinking about its creation. wink

Building the quiz involved:
Thinking of just a few possible outcomes--in this case, four completely different sub-mentalities, naming them and including similar "types" under those umbrellas.
Thinking of 20 different types of questions/scenarios
Thinking of how each of the 4 cardinal "types" would answer and assigning said answer to that type.
Picking out and putting a metric ton of photos of me in the quiz because I have 10s of thousands, and it can still be about me on some level. cool
Then the app tallies up which type you picked more and there you go.

I like your ideas, but that would require statistical-grade software, months of writing, and hundreds of questions. I would still be limited by my own bias of who I have seen. I'm going to make another one, but keep these on the level of BuzzFeed's "Which Sex in the City Character Are You?"

Feedback does help me develop my ability to better read my subs though and makes me a better domme.
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#20967 - 05/25/24 09:02 PM Re: Just who do you think you are? [Re: Domina M]
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I apologise if my response came out wrong. It wasn’t meant as criticism. I certainly don’t expect you to make a bunch of changes. I realise it was a lighthearted effort to engage and applaud you for it. I’m lucky I have enough skill to respond here and buy stuff online let alone design a quiz.
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