(rubbing back side where a handprint is glowing red) interesting manifestation of a ‘nudge’!

My thoughts…. I like the frame work of the fantasy. The good chemistry is important. Keeping it vauge is also helpful, it prevents “topping from bottom” and it also prevents any stifling of the Domme’s creative thought processes. Mistress Ayn is right (as usual) about the need for a good bit of trust between all sides. Stepping into the back seat of a car to be handcuffed and blindfolded can be exciting in fantasy, but it is also frightening. Stepping into the dungeon of a Domme that you have never seen before can be scary, but you do have some control there – you know where the dungeon is; what she looks like – unless it is in the lobby of a D.C. hotel! – and you know her name. When kidnapped you know none of these things. I remember thinking – what if someone else grabs me?? That’s when the nerves began to get to me but I thought about who put it together and calmed down and it turned into one amazing experience – both times!
From my side, I think a frank discussion of what you wish, for how long and limits are absolutely essential for this kind of scene. And the sub should understand that things WILL go wrong. It will not be smooth and seamless like at the movies; but it will be an experience you’ll not soon forget.