Defenseless in a straitjacket, tortured, all emotions amplified by mind-altering drugs: Believe me, I'd definitely not do that with somebody I just met at the bar... So yes, we'd have to exchange a few words beforehand!

I am very lucky to have a partner in Europe with experiences in both, and we know each other well...
But there is room to learn and experience more!

On another note:
I wonder where you find the lawyer who would draft you the respective legal documents - probably you have to provide him/her plenty of psychedelics beforehand :-)