Originally Posted By cbtlover
The facts, which are backed up by BDSM history are simple. Building Stables and training slaves is the way Dommes in both Europe and America practiced their art, and forged their craft.


Some people may have a "stable" but call it something else. Like a poly family. But, as I said, in a professional context it's difficult to enforce as you cannot make the same demands in a professional relationship that you can in one that is lifestyle.

This reminds me I've been meaning to check out "Seeking Bother Husband" to see if it's a FLR kind of thing. smile

Quote:
In todays world with computers, smart phones, 2500 channels on the idiot box, rallies, political debates, and tattoo appointments. Who has time to train a slave, much less build a Stable?


Time is certainly as issue for me, but it's also that most men are actually not looking to be a slave (or even a sub!) What they are looking for is a fetishized experience of that thing.

So, if I were to invest the time and energy involved to create a "stable" that actually meets my interest and needs I would have to get paid a lot more than I charge right now.