I see what you are saying, but 42 sessions in one tour??? If a colleague of mine said she had more than 15 sessions in a tour, I wouldn't believe her, or I would be booking my flight that minute.

The session itself is the least work and most fun part of my job. I can't imagine putting all the work into setting up advertising, the constant emails and phone calls, and the hours of admin to leave money on the table for the part I actually like.

Well, you have to admit the admin side would get a whole lot easier if you had no intention of ever showing up lol. No need for screening, don’t have to worry about your schedule, no need to secure a space. Just put up the ad and collect deposits.

Might work once or twice but I'm not seeing it as a repeatable business model. There are review boards social media etc and I suspect the word would get out fairly quickly.

Maybe I have been doing it wrong for all these years. . . .



Nah. I'm okay with my ways. Too old to change them now.

That's why I think it's okay to (gently, reasonably) call her out and let her make some changes.

Repeat/regular clients are the only way to survive this business. FemDom is too niche to take clients for granted.

My original intent wasn't to focus on a single domme, to change her, or to get anything back, but to discuss the issue of how sub-clients can protect their own interests.

Dommes safeguard their time from timewasters through deposits, but sub-clients are putting their deposit, and in some cases like mine, travel plans at risk when we generally are unknown entities and don't have much recourse.

Nevertheless, given the strong encouragement here, I shall share that it is https://mistressdamazonia.com

Another sub whom messaged me guessed correctly, so I guess I wasn't an isolated incident.

He also felt that I should point out that I wasn't informed of the cancellation, but found out by chance from a twitter post that she was planning to be away.

My first reply in this thread was referring to this Domme as well. My experience was back about 2 years ago.

In the US, my young doms friends are booked nearly every waking moment when touring. 42, one hour sessions, on a tour I can see that if the session was at least 7 days long. When I traveled for session, years back, the demand was to more than I could humanly do. It was like that at home dungeons, at times, too. But, it can be so different geographically and just different times in our world...maybe the alignment of the stars. I just couldn't do it on a frequent basis emotionally. Playtime is fun. I agree that it is the most enjoyable part of the job. Too much of it could mess up my head where I needed a take a break to get back to reality. It is probably different for everyone.

To the OP.....I must admit I'm a little surprised there has been no reaction to your disclosing the name of the Domme in question. Perhaps because it's buried in the middle of the thread it wasn't noticed?

I don't think this issue is a huge or egregious offense on her part but it does seem to display a certain lack of respect for her clientele. Especially as you say you made 3 requests to have the deposit refunded after she cancelled the booking.

I would think the more high profile a Domme is the more likely she has subs travelling especially to see her. Last minute cancelations on her part part (unless absolutely unavoidable) seem poor behaviour and quite disrespectful.

+1

If a Domme rips a sub off... we need to know who she is.

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