I’m not trying to mitigate her behavior in this. I was just wondering and I empathise with you.

It's rotten that this happened to you. Any Domme I've invited to Indomitus has been pretty darn amazing with an incredible reputation and I only had 1 dud and didn't invite them back after 2015 (my first few events).

I can only remember 1 LA domme and she takes 50-100% deposits, not $100, that seems like a total scammer amount, but I'm not saying this didn't happen.

This person is really into being professional and having a good reputation so I'm not sure if they did this on purpose or if something got lost. Again, this is also classic scammer behavior.

I personally have a stellar reputation but have had session emails start going to spam and thought people were completely flaking.
I had to learn to check everywhere, all the time, with the amount this happens. I've also given people my booking line and they've entered it wrong and were calling the wrong person for the confirmation and address. They NEVER even bothered to look that they dialed it wrong. Blasted me all over the place. Then figured out what they did and apologized.

Things happen.

I'm sorry it happened to you but it may have been innocent. I would write to the domme and as long as you are very kind about it, but disappointed, and hoping she might explain, I'm sure you're ok. I've never had anyone in my OOI circle be the type who would ever harm or dox anyone, not ever. In fact, not a single one of them would dare tarnish their rep over $100 or even $10,000. These women are usually successful and absolute gems. But they are mimicked by scammers CONSTANTLY and sadly, VERY realistically.

Just contact the 1 LA domme. As thought, she remembered the 2 people who contacted her but didn't send deposit bc she told them the timing wouldn't work. She didn't have sessions lined up. She only takes as confirmed, 50% or more deposits for at least 6+ years now.

Her and I can't even think of any LA dommes who went other than her. She is looking and concerned as a professional, but has 0 record of anyone sending her $100 for a session deposit, the $100 amount is really weird to her (and to me) as is, her taking it and running and ruining a potential relationship and her own rep.

Hiya -- is this message referring to me? I believe I'm the only OOI Priestess from LA. I would love some clarification on this as I didn't have any outside sessions booked when I came to Florida for both trips. I also stopped taking $100 deposits in 2017. Did you book through my website? I have a lot of impersonators.

Either way, please do let me know as I'm not really in the business of stealing a $100 deposit here and there and would rather not be associated with that.

Off topic, but welcome to The Buzz!

Not a LA Domme. West coast was referring to west coast of Canada. (Vancouver). Elsewhere in this thread the OP later identified the Domme as Mistress Damazonia. This took place a couple of year’s ago.

West coast was referring to Vancouver, not LA

OP posted Domme’s identity later in this thread on 04/18

Thank you but I actually wasn't replying to the main post I was replying to somebody who answered the thread saying that a West Coast domme went to OOI in FL and scammed him out of $100.

I am confused because you are saying you lost a deposit 2 years ago I have not had a person at an event of mine from Los Angeles in the past 2 years.
I was alerted about this thread because supposedly somebody came to an event of mine from the West Coast and may have scammed you out of $100 but nobody from there has been there. Are you thinking of a different year?

An Li last came in 2021, who chimed in hoping to help in the chance she had an accidental oversight and would have wanted to make it right, even though she doesn't take 100 dollar deposits.

I will say and many will verify, An Li is the most impersonated dominatrix I have ever seen by a landslide. If one famous dominatrix has 10 scammers a year she has 200. The amount of social media accounts that are created with her likeness is absolute insanity. Many scammers will tell you "sure yes I'm going to that event yes yes of course yes." They will go along with whatever you present to them. Not all of them ask for big money some of them just ask for small potatoes.

Actually that seems high to you but that is extremely small potatoes to women that probably make $350 to $450,000 a year bc they DONT scam people...$ they'd never see if they did this. Use that noggin. They'd quickly be called out. By dozens or hundreds of people.