Great post.

I have not been in a stable situation - but, my domme and I have discussed this. For context, I have sessioned with my domme exclusively for the last 9 years. We have good energy exchange, dynamic sessions, and do extended sessions 4 times / year.

We both agree - a stable situation would not work well for us - the main reason being who we are, and our situations outside of sessions / play. OUr independence, so to speak. Also, we agree that the absence and time between play fuels the fire! Absence truly does make the heart grow fonder, and we build up to our play - we are always primed and eager to go! We both feel that if we had more access to each other (daily or even weekly) or as a stable sub - our dynamic would not be as good and as special as it is.

Just wanted to share why a stable scenerio would not work well for us. And we are both happy and pleased with where we are today - 9 years later. Its been a nice journey with her as my domme.

Celeste