You put it better than I did. Yes, I think we are all much more "niche" than we were 20 years ago. I don't see any reason for that to be a bad thing. Many aspects of FemDom aren't for me--you mentioned wrestling and findom, which are fine, but just not me. I am pretty comfortable with the phrase, "That is not an experience I provide," responding to requests that don't feel good. Being all things to all people would be exhausting.

Nothing wrong with expensive taste if it corresponds with quality.