I've been to one. I'd love to go to one with a disciplinarian (I'd pay our admission and I'd pay for an OTK session well we were at the party (our secret) ). We'd be there for just a couple of hours. Who knows, you might pick up other customers. While at one of these parties, I saw spankings done right in front of everyone else male and female. It was such a turn on.
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