I may be setting expectations too high for a first session. I wasn't, however, making a session request. All I'm asking for in this post is recommendations for Dommes whose interests match mine. I may get an amazing first session or it may not happen until we've built up a relationship and trust over time. However, there's no point in trying to build a relationship with someone who has different interests from mine, and that's all I'm asking about.

As it happens, I have, over the years, had a few first sessions that exactly his there right spot. They were magical and rare moments but they did happen . . . And they only could happen because they started with a meeting of shared interests. But I really do appreciate the magic of those moments and treasure the memory of my time with those ladies who took me to such amazing places.