How, in the world, is musing about life experiences from the 70's endangering current day dommes? With all due respect, you are stifling conversation on this forum. Obviously, you are free to moderate as you see fit. It is discouraging to see positive conversations being censored and quality posters criticized, which has happened on other topics as well. You've asked me to withdraw from discussions, which I obliged at the time. But, it is getting to the point of having to walk on egg shells or simply be quiet. JB brings such positive energy and good contribution to this forum. It is really sad to see this site take a nose dive when it was going so well and, in part, due to posters like JB.