Furfan

Great questions. Personally I tend to prefer less talking. Though I recently have had a lot of doubles and have really enjoyed the dynamic of having one Domme more talkative and the other more quiet. Just seems to blend well.

I love music playing in a session. I think the sessions I tend to gravitate to go well with background music. I did a ballbusting session in a NYC dungeon many many years ago and can still remember the Domme kicking the crap out of me with Nine Inch Nails blaring. I’ve been talking with a Domme who unfortunately is on the other side of the country, but we share a love of the band Rancid and have talked about doing a session with that as the background. I think the right music can add a lot, but I get how some could find it distracting