These are all really good points.

And I like what Domme Lynx said:

Originally Posted By DommeLynx
"I'd suggest not looking for dominant women specifically, just look for women you vibe with. Many Dommes wont post to those forums in fear of being used as a kink dispenser."


Totally. Just look for someone you like a person first.

I met my most recent partner on FetLife. It's true! I fell totally in love with this man and I met him on FetLife, y'all! LOL You know how he approached me? Not like "hey, ur hot. will u fuk me in th assss??" He was like, "Hey, I love this thing you wrote in this group. Very intelligent." And that lead to a conversation about it which lead to another conversation about whatever, like music we liked or something and then us meeting and then fast forward to us being together for several years.

So, yeah. Be a real person and not an erection with legs.