Mistress Ayn,

Glad you enjoyed the link.

A few more thoughts. Strap on is in a way a sexual act even though penetrator and penetratee are reversed (uh oh, counsel doesn't like that I said that) There is an intimacy which is lacking with mere manual dildo insertion. Now words are often very important in role play. There were two Dommes that would use the word "fuck" a great deal during strap on. They would say things like, "I am going to fuck your brains out". I believe that there were doing this to accentuate the sexual overtones and to a degree it worked.

Now the word "rape" is an even more emotionally charged word than "fuck", so I can see how with some subs hearing it several times can further raise their sexual energy level.