If the Domme can wait 3-5 days to snail mail a money order thats great, but most subs are so last minute with sessions that the snail mail won't work. Most requests I get are within 1 - 7 days. They also will say "yes mistress I sent it" without sending as a way to continue to email/waste time. I need a deposit to hold the time on My schedule, otherwise I could be booking someone else for that time slot--So it usually goes, you want to book a session? Send the deposit by the end of the day or move over for someone else who can!

That must be agonizing, to have to slowly squirrel away $20 at a time. Especially for the type wants to session on impulse.

This is the conundrum exactly. I could write a good short story on this. I can’t do anything electronically that will jump out and that includes large cash withdrawals or even frequent withdrawals. I pretty much squirrel away $20 $40 a week. Sometimes a friend pays me back in cash for money loaned, sometimes I win a few dollars on a lottery ticket , etc etc. It’s a slow process. My life has changed over the years so my opportunities to session have gone down so it kind of works out but it is overall frustrating because the desire to session is still very strong.

Do you want my answer as a professional Domme or a lifestyle Domme?

Lifestyle? OK: you don't. You tell her "I'm kinky. Can you help? No? Do you mind if I go to a professional?" Problem solved!

Money orders are so easy! And if time is an issue overnight it! If someone is going to spend however much on a session what is $25 or $30 to get it to the Domme quickly? For those who are concerned with privacy, is that not worth it?



I understand that. I have made a few exceptions over time. As I said, if I was getting ready to buy something and the place offered e-gift cards I might offer that in lieu of the usual method, but isn't that still an issue with leaving a trail?

Gentlemen, I think you are just going to have to put your big boy pants on and figure this exhausting dance out.

This is good to know, thank you.

Yeah, but isn't this volatile? Like paying someone with a precious metals stock?

One day her tribute is worth what she asked for the next minute she just lost $100?

LOL!

Good point While there can certainly be volatility in bitcoin or crypto over time , if a domme were immediately to convert my deposit to cash that volatility is minimal. A quick email or text exchange of “hey im sending your deposit to your bitcoin address it should be there in 10 minutes” she immediately sells the bitcoin converts to cash and its a completely anonymous transaction for both parties.

In that short of a time frame i believe the volatility cost is less than the time and expense of gas associated with driving cash deposit to the bank.

I looked into bitcoin earlier on in its existence. I remember it seemed confusing and shady, reminiscent of scams. Like I had to buy s gift card and wait for someone to accept it and give me bitcoin. I never tried this because it just seemed tedious and like there wasn't enough benefit for me.

If I were to accept a payment in bitcoin and want to immediately convert it to USD how does that work, exactly? Do I have to wait until someone buys my shares of bitcoin? What if no one does? Isn't it possible that the value of my bitcoin could drop in this timeframe? Once someone does, how do I withdraw it into actual cash?

I realize I could go look this up but since we're already having the conversation here, I might as well keep it going here. Maybe another Domme has the same questions.

If it's easier to point me (and others) to nice, easy to understand site for my answers, that works.