The Male Rape Fantasy is i think as unique in the mind of every male as every other fantasy. It can also be in the Domme's mind but the difference is that what the male sub views as a fantasy is for the Domme a very serious step in the way the future D/s relationship evolves. If the sub is truly taken by the Domme 100% on Her terms for Her psychological pleasure and power then it is the ultimate game changer in many cases.

Rape in this situation is not criminal rape, it is not fantasy rape, it is the setting of the final boundaries of the D/s relationship and rape is likely the wrong word. What is meant is i think the act of the Woman taking the man how and where She sees fit.

This type of "rape" can be with Her strap-on, the strap-on of a female submissive or a male cock or it may just be a mental rape.


Experience 1

Years ago i sessioned with a Mistress who once in session said "One time when you come to see Me I will rape you."

Of course the tension that that created every time i went to see Her was now always there.

As part of my pre-session preparation She had begun long before that statement having me cleanse myself and then wear a reasonably large butt plug to the session. This was part of the routine that i followed.

Then when i arrived for session She began greeting me wearing Her strap-on and having me strip once i was inside the door rather than in the dungeon.

She had a large sofa in Her living room and the dungeon was downstairs.

One day when i arrived She cuffed me and then roughly pushed me over the sofa, pulled out my plug and took me there hard and fast.

Her language was abusively sexy and She made it clear that for Her this was a game changer. It was and eventually i had to stop sessioning with Her for many reasons

Experience 2

Another Mistress had me tied to a horse and had me spit roasted in a fairly exotic fashion with Her and another individual. Looking back this was a pretty heady thing to experience and at the time it was too much for me to manage. i needed a lot of immediate aftercare from Her to re-balance myself.

The Mistress was fantastic in re-grounding me and of course this particular session took me though a big barrier psychologically and physically as a result of that session. It changed Our/our relationship and enriched both of us. Play became far more intense and rewarding afterwards and in many ways We/we formed and have kept an amazing bond as a result of that session.

As men we have all heard man say to other men when describing a woman that all she needs is a damn hard fucking to straighten her out. I don't agree with this , however this is may be one of the reasons that woman may want to live out their rape fantasy , where they rape a man.

i think in some cases in a Domme/sub relationship the same thing applies because it sets the stage as to who is the Boss and resets the rule book going forward.

Dominance is Power and a Domme taking someone how She wants, when she wants and by who She wants, just because She can, represents the ultimate Power Exchange .

In this case the Mistress has in effect claimed ownership of me in every way and i have willingly accepted that that has occurred