Originally Posted By Cheyenne
I can understand. There have been several times, over the years, I've been in an awkward situation. Once, I was at my daughter's art show and bumped into a client. We were both cool about it and even laughed about it later. But, yes, I can understand the nightmares. You never know.


After my first session - a 20 yr. old college kid with little money - with a legendary NYC Mistress in the '70s - she asked me if I would like to go to a club (maybe Plato's Retreat?) and "recreate" our role play session. I eventually said no for fear of being seen by someone I knew or a prospective future boss (LOL!). I've feared getting outed over the years with a Mistress in a few situations.

Separately, I twice saw separate Mistresses I served in public, one going shopping and another at a business event. We ignored each other but it did shake me up.

As for hiring a doctor, lawyer, accountant, etc. and find out that they were/are a pro dominantrix, it might surprise me, but I would judge hiring them based on their expertise and pricing. (And P.S. - I have a neighbor who gives every outward indication of being a pro dominatrix in her fleeting conversations with her, and her attire. My imagination? Maybe. Would I ever pursue/inquire? Nope... too close to home for comfort.)