One recalls well that doxxing the NY Post did to that paramedic who had an onlyfans too.

Oddly enough, the OP got me thinking of my younger days back in yeshiva in Israel: I was in a Talmud class of a rabbi who would paint landscapes in his free time and wouldn't even draw a picture of a sun for reasons pertaining to his understanding of rabbinic law. This rabbi decades ago was in the original stage production of Hair and was involved in the early stages of helping create what became the Rocky Horror Picture Show; he has his own entry in the RHPS wiki. How fascinating is that!? It's something he has talked about publicly...but he never talked about anything but matters of rabbinic studies to us in our class and we respected that; to my recollection, I never spoke to him about his past. I felt like it would've been improper for me as a student of his in Talmud to start prying about his history. So I didn't.

Similarly, if somebody I knew in a professional capacity previously had worked as a prodomme, god knows I'd think that was a fascinating thing about them...and as a client myself, I can't make my brain erase the fact that I know that about them...But I wouldn't bring it up unless they did. It's simply not my place.