Originally Posted By Mistress Ayn
It's also important to note that most female fantasies of rape do not involve pain or violence beyond the act itself and the men are either attractive or shadowy figures that one could imagine might be attractive.


Spankings are not uncommon in bodice rippers (or so I've been told wink )

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You are focusing on strap on play. If it happens while I am thoroughly restrained I guess there is a little bit of a rape element to it but it's secondary at best and there is no roleplay accentuating it. More important to maso me is that it be painful (I once made a Domme laugh by telling her, "It would be icky if I enjoyed it.") Bonus points if I sense that the Domme is genuinely enjoying doing it.

However if we expand the definition of rape to mean "coerced sex" I will admit that I sometimes fantasize about being "forced" to orally satisfy a demanding Domme who has become very aroused as a result of torturing me. The emotional turn-on to that is the idea of being used as well as abused.

On the advice of counsel I will decline to discuss whether this has ever happened.






Edited by The Thomas (10/18/16 12:02 AM)