Out of curiosity, due to this thread, I checked out eros.com yesterday for the first time in awhile, and did again today. Yesterday the BDSM listing was there, now it is gone, so yes, Eros is truly dead. There is a "Fetish and Fantasy" category which for several major cities, lists mostly escorts, some masseuses and a couple of TS models. End of an era, but as some have written here, it wasn't the same after 2018.

I'll always remember finding the site in the early 2000s and San Francisco had the most BDSM listings, close to 100, with New York usually coming in second place. It is the end of an era.