I stopped using Eros in 2018 when they stopped allowing us to link out to our websites and forcing us to either use email or phone as contact details (I haven't published either publically for more than 10 years). I've always had a poor response rate for paid ads from there so I'm surprised people were still using them! Especially after the whole FBI fiasco too.

But I wonder why more people aren't mentioning Dickie Virgin?

They are Femdom specific and have been around nearly 20 years. They also have classifieds (similar to the old Backpages) so it's also good for posting tour dates.