I originally saw it on Twitter, went to eros, and discovered an announcement and that I couldn't edit or copy an ad for another city. I've also been using it for more than a decade, back when-- pretty sure her name was Stormy--- owned it and you could actually talk to a real person.

The problem with social media and twitter is that

1. We are constantly deleted, or copied by scammers
2. Most guys are so afraid to create an account their wife will find or not tech savvy enough to understand how to use it
3. Shadow and search bans make it extremely difficult to find us.

I totally agree with making websites a priority.

And as far as websites, it seems google has been running some tests blocking any adult sites from top search results, but so far that is a through-the-grapevine twitter rumor I've heard.

I'm not sure why Dickie Virgin doesn't really get the attention it needs. I've been an advertiser with them since 2012 and even have an interview on it. My main guess is something to do with search results. Seems to be more popular outside the US.

I'm glad you've been able to sort through Fetlife! Any site you can find a solid sub on is a good one. I've even heard of Dommes using Reddit!

I agree with you about the LE aspect of Eros. That was the conclusion I came to and My only theory on why they'd drop us.
I personally am glad that I don't have to deal with eros anymore because it was such a pain in the ass, and I was very nervous about flying internationally because of their LE connections. However, I can say from My experience I got about 60 % of My clients from there, and way more than that when I tour. Not only that, most of the Dommes who rent My Dungeon use eros.
The consequences of this are a little intimidating but I know that eventually something else will pop up. We all panicked when back page went down, and those with websites stayed afloat.

Hey, I'm always for going back to print magazines!