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"1. She, like many other professionals, is appealing to fantasy. In this case, it's the fantasy of not having a way out. But, in truth, if you were to safeword, she would stop the scene. She *should* stop the scene."

and the domme who says no safewords allowed for corp punishment on her website in her intro or interest area . . .

It is a simple matter of my having some extra time and the money in the next few years to take the time to see her.

then we might know more. But . . . in actual practice . . . with a number of dommes . . . I tend to request a session with no safewords . . . and in practice, once the domme understands that, 70% of the time, at the start of the session, the domme does not offer me a safeword and I do not ask for one.

I have gone into most sessions with no agreed upon safeword . . . and maybe the domme responds to red and maybe not and I often do not know or have told her to not to respond, unless I say or indicate: I am having a heart attack. And I have at times shared enough med history for the domme to know the doctors are convinced I have no high BP, no heart disease and no history of angina or signs of CVD. So . . . if I am having a heart attack, it is completely outside of my medical history and we both know it.

So, having a sesh with no known safeword is not just a fantasy or just a dream . . . even if some dungeons try to make all dommes using the dungeon give and honor a safeword . . . I've had sessions with no known safewords and other sessions in which I was gagged for most of the corp punishment of the session . . .

At least once I have been gagged intentionally to prevent talking, including say a safeword or trying. So . . . half of the dommes I see are criminals and we do not know it?