Why do people not think about Googling someone?

Folx, try this:

1.Pull up a search engine. As much as I'd like to say otherwise, Google produces the most relevant and comprehensive results.

2. Type in some combination of Dominatrix/Domme/Mistress/FemDom/etc and the city or state you're looking for, such as "Boise FemDom".

3. If you're looking for a particular type of Domme, like a Mommy, Disciplinarian, Sadist, etc., or a particular type of scene, like heavy corporal, heavy bondage, prisoner, superhero, etc, then try adding those words. For example, "Charlotte Disciplinarian FemDom". Try different combinations of words.

4. If you find a Domme that interests you but she doesn't indicate she offers what you're looking for, look at her limits, and if you don't see it there, politely inquire.

Will you always find something this way? No. The Domme has to have a website, and she has to have decent SEO. This is why I stress the importance of having a site. It can be the difference between someone finding you and having no idea you exist. It also helps you stand out from the scammers and drive-by amateurs looking to make a little cash with entry-level play.