Eros has been dead for some time now. The last two attempts I made to coordinate a session from an ad were clearly scammers on the other end. I agree though, there are no real alternatives. Tryst and Privatedelights seem like crap too. I keeping looking there because there is nothing else.

But I have the same escort/bdsm problem as you, but obviously opposite. Women advertise they do bdsm, femdom, etc, but if I inquire about something as general as “femdom”, I usually won’t hear back because they are escorts onlly.

As a submissive in my late 40s that only does professional scenes, these are tough times. I’ve been active for 25+ years and it’s never been hander to find sincere pro dommes.