1. No website. Scammers RARELY have one. If none is given and you can't find one assume they're fake until further research is done.

2. They have a new account. Whether here or FetLife or somewhere else, scammers can't stay around for long so they almost always have brand new accounts.

3. Can't find any mention of them anywhere legitimate. If you research the name given you are unlikely to find any other mention of them online. If you do it may be on some weird random "advertising" or fake porn site or somewhere else you've never heard of.

4. Their talk is too good to be true. They will tell you some combination of exactly what you want to hear: they're very experienced, very beautiful, offer exactly what you're asking, want sexual service, will be your Mommy, offer discounted rates, etc.

5. They tell you to contact them somewhere like KIK or other places where it's fast and easy to set up a free account. This makes it easy for them to pop in, scam you, and disappear.

6. They may cold-contact you. Genuine professionals RARELY do this.

7. They say you have to buy a "kit" or otherwise front the money for equipment for the session. While some legit pros may ask you to cover costs for something special you're asking for, such as a sploshing scene, we either have our own dungeons or rent them. These things are already equipped.