Originally Posted By broom
i've dropped a lot of my limits over time. i think this happened for a couple of reasons. first, i learned that some of the things i was afraid of are actually a lot of fun. so i put it down to learning more about kink and also myself. the second thing that changed my views, were the dommes themselves. i've always wanted to please women. i became more willing to experiment and try things that the domme was into. as i sessioned more with a particular domme, we built trust. that trust allowed me to experiment and open myself up to new experiences.


Good points broom, especially the first one. I think for me it's also continually wanting to push on to new things or take past activities up a notch. Doing sessions repeatedly over the years with the same activities at the same level of intensity can get stale. Sometimes trying edgier things can cause regrets/"biting off more than you can chew" (been there, done that grin ) but often it can add new activities to reinvigorate your sessions.