i've dropped a lot of my limits over time. i think this happened for a couple of reasons. first, i learned that some of the things i was afraid of are actually a lot of fun. so i put it down to learning more about kink and also myself. the second thing that changed my views, were the dommes themselves. i've always wanted to please women. i became more willing to experiment and try things that the domme was into. as i sessioned more with a particular domme, we built trust. that trust allowed me to experiment and open myself up to new experiences.