Originally Posted By ztrade
It is ok, I suppose, to suggest that I am obsessed with some super sadist dommes or the idea of dommes who will use seduction or trickery to get a guy to go beyond his limits or to do other problems.


Don't confuse sadism with criminal. I'm a sadist but I don't coerce anyone into going beyond their limits. They are LIMITS for a reason.


Originally Posted By ztrade
But given the websites, twitter and clips4sale of many dommes, it seems that there are 10 to 40% of dommes who in some way use "sex appeal" or being sexy and fun to attract or seduce or create problems for clients.


All those clips and videos that Dommes and service tops and switches and actresses and the like create? That's a form of fantasy-based entertainment.

This is why we are, in many ways, entertainers. We help people who wish to explore fantasies. If the idea of what happens in those clips excites you, great, but you are talking about negotiating a roleplay with someone to do those things.


Edited by Mistress Tissa (10/27/23 11:36 PM)