It is ok, I suppose, to suggest that I am obsessed with some super sadist dommes or the idea of dommes who will use seduction or trickery to get a guy to go beyond his limits or to do other problems. But given the websites, twitter and clips4sale of many dommes, it seems that there are 10 to 40% of dommes who in some way use "sex appeal" or being sexy and fun to attract or seduce or create problems for clients.

But the idea does not come from me; it is the dommes themselves who mention it directly or indirectly. Some way I will persuade or induce you to do what I want . . . some say that they will do so because you are enthralled or enchanted or in love with them, etc.

They use diff words and phrases. Some of them do not mention this idea at all, but it is easy to find one or more who explicitly say it. And my question was simply on the domme perhaps using sexiness in her pre-session consultation . . . Probably some do but I do not know of it yet. That some do in general . . . it seems obvious from their clips which are sold at clips4sale and iwantclips, etc!

Don't confuse sadism with criminal. I'm a sadist but I don't coerce anyone into going beyond their limits. They are LIMITS for a reason.




All those clips and videos that Dommes and service tops and switches and actresses and the like create? That's a form of fantasy-based entertainment.

This is why we are, in many ways, entertainers. We help people who wish to explore fantasies. If the idea of what happens in those clips excites you, great, but you are talking about negotiating a roleplay with someone to do those things.

I enjoy having my limits pushed but respected. It takes a skillful domina to know how to collaborate and communicate throughout that process.